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What is relaxation and how do I amplify it?
Relaxation is a state in which your mind and body are at peace, it is the opposite of the state of ‘stress’. Being relaxed enables you to engage in life with a clear head and allows you to maintain balance when facing life challenges.
When we talk about relaxation at thymia, we refer to how at ease you feel. Low levels of relaxation may indicate that you are feeling tense or overwhelmed, suggesting that it could be time to take a break. When relaxation levels are high, it’s a sign that you may feel calm or peaceful. Leaning on our strengths and other positive coping strategies can help us feel calmer, even when we are navigating tough situations.
How can I feel more relaxed?
Relaxation may sound straightforward in theory, though achieving it and making it part of daily life can be challenging. Simply wanting to relax doesn’t always lead to feeling relaxed, but trying different techniques can help improve your ability to reach this state. Like any skill, relaxation takes practice and patience to develop and refine.
Relaxation techniques are designed to help the body respond to stress more effectively, providing strategies that calm both the mind and body. When reaching a deep state of relaxation, we feel less stress and anxiety, which positively impacts physical factors like blood pressure, heart rate and oxygen supply to our body. Techniques to reduce stress and create that feeling of being relaxed are designed to target the reactions that stress can trigger, helping you maintain a balanced state even in demanding situations. The primary aim of these strategies is to alleviate tension and reduce anxiety, helping to achieve a more resilient and relaxed mindset.
The first step towards reducing stress and being overall more relaxed is awareness. This awareness is key for identifying your unique stressors and responses. While some sources of stress may be beyond your control—such as health concerns, financial worries, difficult relationships or a stressful work environment (learn more)—there are techniques you can use to increase your resilience to stressors that you can control.
What can lead to low relaxation?
Our ability to maintain a state of relaxation is influenced by several factors, including personality, social and economic conditions and even our genetics! When relaxation levels dip, we enter familiar territory - stress. Stress commonly sneaks in when we’re juggling too much, leaving us feeling overwhelmed and like there’s just never enough time to accomplish everything we want or need to do.
Stress and low relaxation
Low relaxation scores may be a sign of feeling stressed. While stress can actually be beneficial in short bursts—helping us tackle immediate challenges—it becomes problematic when it is sustained over the long term. Prolonged stress and difficulties feeling relaxed can significantly affect our overall health, making us more susceptible to illness, disrupting our digestion and negatively impacting our mood and appetite.
Signs of long-term stress include:
Feeling anxious, tense, or irritable.
Physical symptoms including stomach and digestive problems, muscle pain, headaches and dizziness.
Changes in sleep or eating habits.
Autoimmune condition flare-ups (including, for instance, Crohn’s Disease).
Skin condition flare-ups or reactions (including acne, psoriasis, eczema and more).
Leaning more on unhealthy habits like drinking or smoking which might provide temporary relief.
Trouble focusing, making decisions or remembering things.
If you have been feeling like reaching a state of relaxation is a struggle or that stress has been affecting your mental or physical health, do not hesitate to seek support from friends, family or a medical professional.
If you are at all concerned about your mental health and well-being or anything you see in the wellness score we recommend you contact a healthcare provider or a mental health professional.
Within the UK and EU, you can also call the Samaritans by dialling 116 123.
Science-backed techniques to reduce stress:
Identify triggers: Noticing what disrupts your relaxation can empower you to prepare for challenges more effectively. Identifying your stressors helps make them feel more manageable, reducing their internal impact.
Take a break: Stepping back, even for a short while, can bring fresh perspectives and help reset your mind.
Get active: Physical activities like brisk walking or gentle stretching can help relieve tension and boost mood. Activities like Tai Chi, walking in nature and yoga have been shown to greatly improve relaxation. Explore different activities to find what works best for you. Learn more about getting active here.
Eat mindfully: Stressful times call for extra attention to your eating habits. Eating nutrient-rich foods can help stabilise blood sugar and strengthen your immune response, both of which are beneficial for maintaining relaxation.
Time management: Organise your tasks, set priorities, and use problem-solving tools to feel more in control.
Don’t avoid your to-do list! We all sometimes avoid challenging tasks or difficult conversations to avoid feeling stressed, but it can cause more intense feelings of stress and poorer mental health in the long run. To tackle procrastination, make a list of everything you have been avoiding over a week and notice if there are any patterns in the tasks you tend to avoid.
Progressive muscle relaxation (PMR): This technique involves tensing and then slowly releasing each muscle group. This systematic approach helps you recognise physical tension and promotes relaxation.
Deep controlled breathing: Also known as diaphragmatic breathing, this technique helps unite the mind and body for relaxation. Focus on slow, deep breaths to calm your nervous system.
Guided imagery: One way to reframe negative or stressful thoughts is to replace them with calming mental images to create a soothing mental environment. This technique can enhance relaxation by encouraging your mind to visualise peaceful scenes.
Meditation and yoga: Meditation and yoga are proven relaxation practices that promote a calm and focused mind, reduce stress hormones, and lower blood pressure, helping both mind and body relax.
Prayer: For those who find meaning in it, prayer can offer a profound sense of peace and grounding. It serves as a moment of reflection and connection, fostering a calm mindset and helping to relieve stress. Like meditation, prayer has been shown to trigger the relaxation response, leading to physical benefits such as reduced heart rate and lower blood pressure.
To discover which strategies work best for you, complete daily thymia wellness checks and track your progress, allowing you to see how your chosen approaches impact your well-being over time.
Final note
Spending some time to find what strategies help you reduce stress has lasting benefits. Tracking your progress is key to understanding what works best for you. thymia’s wellness checks and tracking your Journey can guide you in understanding your mental wellness patterns, helping you objectively see the impact of different techniques and refine your relaxation toolkit to suit your needs.
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